Why couples end up choosing a long distance relationship, following are some of the examples:

* Both partners support each other in pursuing their own careers, even if it demands one partner to move to a different country. There could be many reasons for this; mostly couple seek more financial security.
* Sometimes time period to live in different places differs; some do it for temporary period. For example if a couple have a goal of achieving something like buying a  flat for themselves and if you need some extra funds, then mostly couples take a mutual decision of  tapping the right opportunity in any given city.
* Due to the countless exposure of dating sites, many people are falling in love online. Internet has provided an opportunity to hook up to any person irrespective of their religion or geography. If at any point of time you realize that you are sharing a great chemistry then you don’t really hesitate to commit to that person.
* There are many demanding jobs that involve excessive traveling; hence this kind of situation becomes uncontrollable. When in some country you don’t have the right education facility for the children you have to stay back for the sake of supporting your children.

Following are some of the challenges long distance relationships face:

* Needless to say, every couple goes through ups and downs in the relation but things become difficult when you are physically away from each other. Communication becomes very challenging especially during rough times.
* It’s a human nature to crave for companionship; sometimes just lounging around with your partner carries great importance. A happy couple at the end of the day just waits to be in their partner’s arms and want to talk about little things that they experience in a day to day life. In some cases a person can become vulnerable; it can lead to inclination towards someone you meet in your usual routine. As you are getting a chance to spend some quality time with him/her you feel attached.
* If you are living in totally different time zones then it becomes difficult to cope up.
* It becomes extremely intricate when children are involved in the whole situation. If a person is not able to manage the kids and the career together, then it gets really difficult for one partner to relax and can lead to frustration. In several cases kids miss one of the parent presences in their lives especially during the times when they are growing up.
* Many couples find it tough to express their emotions; it’s a human nature to yearn for sexual and emotional intimacy.
* The very possibility of feeling bored, lonely. The day comes when it entraps you and leaves you depressed.
* If the relationship doesn’t have a strong trust level then it will definitely lead to suspicion and can hamper your mental peace. Therefore, long distance relations require a great degree of faith and a sense of security towards each other.
* In the times of grief or sorrow you desperately need your partner around you, it’s a natural need to feel caressed and consoled. During these times it becomes extremely hard to keep your calm.

Things you can do to bridge the distance:

* Indeed there are many things which a couple can do to nurture their relationship when they are miles apart. The foremost factor is the commitment and unconditional love towards each other.
* Always plan a two weeks vacation after every six months or maximum a year. Plan a holiday and go to any place where you can compensate for all the lost moments which you spend away from each other. This will give you an opportunity to come closer, you will cherish every moment shared together when you will be away from each other.
* When you realize that your partner is going through bumpy times, you tend to feel concerned but when you are far apart it becomes a challenge for you to support your partner in the best possible way. At any given circumstances you can call, send inspiring mails, and send love greetings ensuring that you are always there to support. These days you have number of facilities like video conferencing you can even order flowers for your partner. Your partner will certainly feel better after realizing that you are truly concerned about him/her.
* No matter you are staying together or staying away from each other no couple can avoid arguments in their relationship. Thus, right communication becomes crucial in resolving the differences; you ought to put an extra effort in sorting out the conflicts. Calls, Emails, messaging are some of the feasible options.
* In the long distance relationship sexual intimacy is one of the main factors which couples desperately miss that is why sharing intimate desires becomes essential.
* Those couples who share a special chemistry of understanding each other have an everlasting relationship. When a couple goes through difficult times together it usually strengthens the relationship. Suffice to mention that it demands a great deal of commitment to build a successful relationship.

Sumptuous Bath of rose water
•1 small Cup Rose Water, which you can easily find at a health store or take one cup fresh Rose petals.

•1small Cup Coconut Milk

Procedure

Add the whole cup of rose petals, 1 cup coconut milk in the bath tub.
Immerse yourself in a tub, loosen up for 15 minutes. It will give you a relaxing effect; later rinse your whole body. Apply a moisturizer
Rose has a soothing effect to it, and it is widely used as an antidepressant. Its anti- inflammatory and antibacterial properties are outstanding.

Skin Mask for oily skin

Take adequate natural yogurt and mix it with 1 teaspoon of brewers yeast. Dab it well on the oily part of your skin, leave it to dry for 20 minutes. Later rinse off with warm water.

Honey and Egg yolk Mask

Mix 1 tablespoon yogurt, 1/2 teaspoon almond oil, 1 tablespoon honey with 1 egg yolk. Apply it on your face; allow it to get dry for 15 minutes. Afterwards, rinse it off with warm water. Honey has the property to smoothen and energize, egg and almond oil is the best moisturizer ingredients, and yolk refines and tightens the skin.

Facial mask

It is believed to be the best homemade facial.
Mix – 1 egg white, half cup of cooked urgent oatmeal, one teaspoon of olive oil and add few drops of lemon juice till its smoothens.
Use the whole mixture, apply softly on your face, allow it to get dry for 20 minutes and then wash it with lukewarm water.

Dark Circles recipe

The area under your eyes is considered to be very sensitive. Hence, special caution should be given while applying anything. Dark circles under your eyes can be treated by applying grated raw potato. Just make sure you wrap a grated potato slices in cheesecloth, apply it to your eyelids for about 20 minutes. Later on wipe off your skin and apply an eye cream. It effectively lightens the dark circles and gives you a comforting feeling.

Hair conditioner Recipe

Take one cup of water, one egg yolk and 1 teaspoon of baby oil. Beat one cup of egg yolk till the time it becomes frothy. Add baby oil in it and again beat it to get a smoothen paste. Comb your hair gently, and massage the whole mixture into your scalp with the tip of your finger. Apply the rest of the mixture all over your hair, keep it for 20 minutes. Finally, wash it with lukewarm water, make it a point that you rinse off the mixture properly.

Sandalwood Face mask

Take a tablespoon of sandalwood powder and few drops of water; mix it well to get a smooth paste. Softly apply it on your face, carefully leave the area around your eyes, and give it some time to get dry. Rinse your face after 20 minutes with clean water. It exfoliates your skin and removes any scars from your face.

Fenugreek for blackheads

Fenugreek is widely known for its powerful anti blackhead quality. Take some fenugreek leaves and grind it, later add some water to it to make a smooth paste. Gently apply it on your face, leave it for 15 minutes and rinse it off with lukewarm water. It gives you a clear skin, its regular use helps you in getting rid of any scars.

Coriander Leaves

Take one tablespoon of coriander leaves juice; add half teaspoon turmeric powder.
Apply the mixture before going to bed. In the morning, clear your face with cold water. It not only cures blackheads but also improves your skin complexion

Curd

Blend one teaspoon of rice flour with the same quantity of curd. Apply it on your face, keep it for 15 minutes. Afterwards, wash your face with lukewarm water.

Always clean your face before applying any face mask. Herbal remedies are used on a large scale for enhancing the quality of the skin. In today’s busy world we tend to take ourselves for granted, in order to lead a healthy life style we should introduce few habits. Drink at least 9 glasses of fresh water, every morning meditate to relieve your self. Needless to say, these days every one goes through stress, no matter its related to their personal or professional lives, it’s an ongoing stress level which can be cured through yoga and meditation. Choose a healthy diet with lots of fresh fruits and vegetables; ensure that you exercise at least 5 days a week to keep yourself fit!

• Learning problems
• Deep sense of insecurity
• Gets oversensitive
• Unable to trust people
• Becomes violent and abusive
• Get nightmares, sleeping disorder
• Manic depression
• Lack of self confidence
• Low self esteem
• Subdued Anger

These signs indicate that you went through a serious trauma in your childhood days. . In many cases, the above characteristics become a personality trait, which take a very long time to heal. We need to realize that child abuse doesn’t end to just scares or bruises; the impact lasts far beyond the physical pain. Experts have revealed that at least 30-80 percent of the childhood survivors develop anxiety disorder, which leads to depression. In most serious cases, adults exhibit the signs of chronic stress disorder.

Post traumatic disorder is invariably experienced after physical or emotional abuse already happened. The person who had experienced child abuse will continue going through an unbearable pain for years. Abused survivors ironically feel certain amount of guilt and ashamed of their past. The story remains untold because of the deepest fear of being ridiculed or laughed at. Many studies indicate that while going through the healing process an individual will experience number of negative emotions; flashback of all those traumatic times will haunt you. All these reactions will be normal just don’t get dishearten, you are not alone. Instead of going through the hurt in isolation, it will be better if you can share your story with any of your trusted friend or a family member. Never allow the negative feelings to devour you in any ways. You have confronted a great challenge and it’s a courageous step to muster up strength to relive the abuse and heal yourself from the torture.

If you don’t really trust someone you can always consult a trusted counselor or you can easily write bogs online and share your story, this way you can let out your emotions without disclosing your real identity. It is important to take out your subdued emotions from your mind and heart, if you compose it down somewhere this way you are reliving yourself. If you are still in touch with the abuser, then you will have a burning spirit to take revenge. Many victims don’t really want to face the abuser again in their lives; they prefer eradicating the picture of the abuser from their mind. In some cases you can’t avoid the abuser, for example if he/she is your family member or your friend.

• Do you ever ponder if the abuser is still harassing someone? The possibility is yes.

• Do you want one more person to go through the same suffering which you have faced for many years?

• Don’t you want him to be punished before he/she again entraps one more innocent child?

Indeed it’s difficult to confront the abuser, but remember! It will make you a stronger person, and you will actually be saving many more children from going through the same trauma. Seek support from your family who care for you and the community you are living in, the support system is very essential. People who commit these immoral acts have to be held responsible, and the only way we can make them accountable is by stopping them. In most cases the abuser will never admit that he/she actually committed the crime. These days you have number of organizations like NGO’s safeguarding the interests of the victims, childhood abuse is a dreadful crime and punishable by law. In most countries there is enough legal precedent to bring justice and prosecute the crime.

Don’t be afraid, you need to combat this stage in your life by punishing the one who had damaged your soul by abusing you. You need to stand up and fight it out before someone else gets trapped in the abusers despiteful deeds. Child abuse is completely an act of human degradation; all of us should come forward to help those people who have suffered. Your life and your past childhood moments are precious and no one else has a right to damage that innocence. I really hope that all of us will discuss it more openly so that victims of child abuse will not hesitate or get scared to bring out their horrendous experiences. Unfortunately, not many people come forth to share their stories, don’t feel isolated you can provide a new lease to your life.

Healing from your childhood abuse will take sometime, don’t be dishearten you have tolerated enough pain now it’s the time to alleviate your pain. It’s a long process, but with the assistance and support of some professionals or your family’s love it can become easier. Always remember that you deserve to live a much happier life, it’s in your hands to transform your life by leaving all the suffering behind you and leading a more fulfilling life!

Examples of abuse include:

Different forms of Abuses:

• Physical Abuse - Hurting badly, assaulting you.
• Sexual Abuse - Forcing sexual relationship
• Emotional Abuse - Using abusive language, insulting in public, not giving enough freedom to live in a decent way.
• Financial Abuse - Forcibly taking away all the money, stealing your money.

Are you going through any of the following abuses?

• Jealousy, suspicion - Your partner is jealous of your success, stops you to socialize with some people.
• Public let down - Your partner abuses you or insults you in public causing you deep emotional distress.
• Forceful relationship - Threatening you to be in a relationship without your heart or willingness.

Common Myths of Domestic Violence

• In today’s modern world Domestic violence can’t happen or doesn’t happen.
• Domestic violence just happens to the poor section of the society, and to uneducated people.
• Some people think that domestic violence only happens due to excessive Alcohol intake, drug use, mental stress but it’s wrong.
• Some people make an excuse that they are going through bad phase that is why they can’t control themselves. ITS WRONG!
• Domestic violence can only happen between husband and wife.
• Everything looks fine, when you want to help a domestic violence victim but you are hesitant because you see them living together even after knowing that there is something wrong between them. You tend to presume that everything must be fine between them. But in reality there are some reasons why people don’t have the courage to walk out of the relation.

WHY CANT YOU STAND UP FOR YOUR RIGHT?

• You don’t want the society to know your personal problems.
• You don’t want to expose your sexuality. In case of lesbians, gays!
• If you are elder you don’t have required support to stand against the person on whom you are dependent.
• May be you feel ashamed and insecured of the society’s reaction?
• You are a foreigner, scared of being deported back.
• Your Family Tradition, Religious Laws doesn’t support you.
• Fear of breakup which can hurt children. If the woman is not financially sound and she thinks that she won’t be able to support her children’s education and well being.

EMOTIONAL DAMAGE TO THE CHILDREN

• Children also suffer from domestic violence between their parents. Children do get harmed just by encountering and overhearing the violence between their parents. No matter they are part of the violence or not they still get emotionally hurt which leads to further insecurities in their lives.
• Researchers suggest that many children with this kind of domestic violence end up becoming criminals.
• They become violent in later stages of their youth. They tend to get cruel to the world because they also didn’t get the kind of love and care from anyone.
• Children living in these kind of circumstances where there is screaming, yelling and hitting can be very dangerous for their growth. They don’t even know how they can help their parents to resolve their conflict.
• They have trouble sleeping peacefully.
• They have trouble in getting along with their friends in school. They are unable to pay attention to their studies which leads to poor grades.
• They feel sad, scared all the time.
• They lack self confidence and live in isolation.

Ways to give a safer environment for your children

• Don’t allow them to get in between the fight.
• Teach your children to call 911 and how to provide location of your residence.
• If the circumstances between you and your partner are uncontrollable for some period, then don’t hesitate to admit them in a hostel. And when you think the situation is calmed down you can get them back anytime. We do know it requires lot of effort but it’s always better to keep your children away from any domestic violence which can harm their mental peace.

WAYS TO HANDLE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Keep the following points in mind
• Contact any of the domestic violence help-line. They will provide you safe environment for you and your children.
• Try to film the whole incident secretly with a webcam. This will help you get a strong live proof to charge your abuser. Accumulate all the documents, if you have received any threatening letters or mails that can also help you to prove your case
• Don’t hide anything from the Police. Explain every incident which happened between you and your partner.
• Show your injuries. Explain the police that how many times it has happened in the past.
• Get your friends, family’s support.
• Be aware of the existing agencies which help people who are the victims of Domestic Violence.They provide counseling, financial support, therapy for domestic abuse victim’s .This can help you in coping up with the situation. Enroll to any self defense training program that focuses on training women to protect themselves from any kind of physical violence. Many companies do take care of your basic needs, so don’t be dependent on the abuser because you don’t have anywhere to go.
• Protect your identity on net, as there are many people who get targeted through online information they provide not knowing that it’s not safe to disclose your personal details to strangers. Cancel all your existing bank accounts, credit cards, particularly the one which you shared with your abuser!

Just go through the list of surprises which you should not miss!

• Red roses can never go out of fashion. Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, and birthday gifts are common. Don’t make this as a once in a while affair. Send her flowers when you are away from her. Don’t hesitate to send her/him bunch of red roses when you are away from each other, while touring or while you are at your work place. But don’t write your name let it gets mysterious. Wouldn’t it be fun to play this game!

• Compliment your love the way she takes care of you. Get her something which she has been thinking of buying lately. It adds to the thrill, when you gift your love something when she/he least expects it!

• Many people forget to appreciate little things which matters a lot in a relationship. For example if your wife cooks for you daily then don’t consider it as your partner’s duty towards you, she only does it out of love! You can also surprise her with your cooking skills, ask her to go out for shopping and in the meantime cook any of her favorite dishes!

• Plan a surprise candle night dinner for her before she comes home. And guys don’t forget to wash the dishes on your own! Give your princess a little rest one day!

• One thing in where you can never go wrong is taking your partner out and buying something for her, that would e a surprise for your lady especially when it’s a known fact that guys don’t really like going out for shopping with their ladies!

• Handwritten Love notes do wonders to express your love. You should do it as often as you can. Sneak it inside her purse, write something on the mirror before she goes to take a bath, write something loving on her desktop image etc.

• Record a song for her in your own voice. Now don’t feel shy! if you think that you suck at singing! She will just like the thought behind you singing a song especially for her.

• Give her an aromatic massage whenever you see her exhausted. No lady can resist a tempting massage from someone she loves! It shows that you realize they had a rough day.
• Surprise her at her workplace during the lunch hrs and take her out for lunch.

• Present a photo frame where you can merge all your favorites times which you spent together. You can even make a photo frame of her sweet childhood pictures. That will be a sweet gesture.

• Get tickets of her favorite show or any other extravaganza fun which she enjoys a lot.

• While packing his lunch put his favorite chocolate bar on top of it.

• Just disappear at night all of a sudden making her more curious, if she calls out of curiosity then don’t pick her call. Grab some chips, cookies and a bottle of champagne before you leave. Go on your terrace, light some candles around and then call her over.

• If you are working and your partner is taking care of the home and kids then never assume that she is just having a blast by just sitting at home. Don’t be a thankless person by just ignoring the fact that it takes a lot of effort to handle kids and the household stuff. Try to help her as much as you can without being asked.

• The list can go on and on. You can always do things for her which she least expects from you like washing dishes, doing some of her daily routine stuff keeping your lawn nice. Your partner will really appreciate you lending her a helping hand without you being asked to do!

When you plan something, try to make it as unique and an exciting surprise as you can. The curiosity factor makes it even more exhilarating, it enlighten up the feel of love and romance with your partner. So let’s plan a distinctive surprise for your love which will make her fall in love with you all over again!

Most of the guys get dishearten and frustrated when they don’t get any response from women on dating sites. And they start presuming that they are arrogant, but guys as a matter of fact you are completely wrong here! This is not true at all! Here you need to analyze your way of approaching women on dating sites. Firstly, you need to know that women are intelligent enough to screen every bit of your messages. Accordingly, they will give you importance or will easily overlook you; it all depends upon your way of interacting with them. Therefore, you need to be different; here are some lists of dos and don’ts that will help you in getting responses!

• Don’t just copy and paste same messages to 20 women. Don’t be a dullard in your very first approach; girls can easily notice that you are trying to hit on countless girls with the same boring message, so don’t be surprised if you don’t get any response from the other side. It’s like you are fishing in a sea and you will be gratified with any catch. Do send individual messages, go through their interests section and try to put your thought on it. This way you can make women interested in you, in most cases you will get a reply.
• Don’t waste your time on low grade Dating Sites, find out the most happening dating site, within a month you can review the dating site.
• I see guys writing all sorts of stupid messages on dating sites. Don’t write the same old boring lines, for example “hi how are you?” “You look pretty can we be friends?” Guys you need to choose some exciting pick up lines. Go through her profile and the communities or blogs she participates in; try writing your opinions about it.
• Don’t make silly grammar mistakes; try to read your message before you send it. Firstly it should make sense to you; then only it can make sense to the other person.
• Don’t be investigative; otherwise you will scare her away. Many guys just want to know everything too quickly, like the phone number, which company she works in or which college she attends. If she hasn’t added her pictures, then presume that she is a private person, who doesn’t want the whole world to invade her privacy. Do give her some time to get to know each other; once she becomes comfortable with you, she will surely share her personal details.
• Don’t choose a goofy nickname; it is the first thing which women will notice. Firstly it should not have any sexual meaning to it; secondly, it should not sound whacky. Mostly, women form their first opinion from the nickname, so remember it should be a classy one.

• Don’t lie about your personal information, this will lead you nowhere. If you don’t want to share your personal details because of any given reason, then just don’t include that detail in your conversation. Always remember if you want to date women then some day you will be meeting them in real. Hence, it’s not advisable to fake something which will be exposed later. Women hate imposters!
• Don’t just give importance to their looks, there is so much more to women than just their looks. So, guys don’t harp the same compliment “oh you look beautiful” you will be sidelined in no time!
• Right kind of interesting communication is essential to attract women; women usually get hundreds of mails from innumerable guys. Thus, your approach needs to be different than any other guy;
• Don’t pursue married women for dating; it’s a waste of time. If you just want to commence a friendly conversation, then you can always initiate talks.
• Don’t harass those women that are not showing interest in you. It’s better to move on; there are million of other profiles out there. If you still continue bugging them, then chances are that you will be banned from the site with no gains!
• Of course, there are many more ways to impress women on dating sites, we have listed only small list of unbelievably stupid things guys do on single dating sites!

Child abuse is an inappropriate behavior directed towards a child that causes physical or emotional abuse .It can take many forms. You can also analyze your own behavior towards your children; you can even observe people around you who behave in an objectionable way with their children or when you see any person molesting a child. The following description will help you in identifying various forms. We need to take every measure to prevent Child Abuse, research suggest that family violence is one of the main causes of child abuse. Acts of child abuse mostly happens in the family and never gets exposed; needful measures should be taken to provide a safe environment to every child. Lets identity and eliminate all the root causes of child abuse.

Forms of Child Abuse

• Sexual Abuse
• Emotional Abuse
• Physical Abuse

Child abuse includes any kind of inappropriate sexual behavior that asks for child’s participation to fulfill the sexual desire in you or of any other individual. The intention of using child’s body to arouse your sexual desire is considered to be illegal. It is considered to be a criminal behavior if committed then the person will be prosecuted under the legal system.

Sexual Abuse of a child includes wide forms of activities

• Acts like touching child’s genitals to stimulate sexual feelings.

• Seeing a naked child without clothes with wrong intentions to excite sexually.

• Videotaping children in naked posture to arouse your sexual lust is considered inappropriate and considered a felonious crime.

• Any intention to seduce a minor, to form a sexual relationship is regarded as a child abuse.

Parents guide to prevent their child from sexual abuse.

We often think that the child offender can’t be your friend or your relative or for that matter your own family member. One of the main myths about the child abuser is people think that only strangers can sexually abuse your child. It can be anyone who has a bad intention towards children; they don’t give any importance to the kind of relation they share with the child.

Reasons for not sharing their sexual abuse

It is important for the victim of sexual abused to come forward and report the crime. Older children feel hesitant to tell their parents because the child molester has developed fear in the child’s mind. It’s always recommended to beware of all the symptoms which can help you to see the signs and symptoms in your child. Every parent should discuss any kind of possible changes with a professional help for proper evaluation. Some children fear that they will be left out if they will tell their sexually abused act, or may be nobody will believe their side of the traumatic story.

Symptoms of a sexually abused child

• Sexually abused child go through a touch phase. You will notice a drastic change in the child’s behavior. He will stop socializing with his/her friends, family members, siblings. Sudden outburst of tears without any reason.

• Certain sudden changes in the behavior like unnecessary getting agitated, bed wetting, having nightmares, insomnia, anxiety, fear and feeling depressed all the times.

• Notice your child getting scared from some known or unknown person, then don’t ignore this behavior, it’s a sign that they don’t want to be alone with them. It’s a natural signal that a child will develop fear against the person who molested them; they are unable to realize what exactly the molester did with them.

• If your child has stopped enjoying things he/she used to enjoy like her/his favorite sports, cartoons etc. When the child stops communicating with his/her friends or with you.

• If you notice bruises, rashes or injuries on your child’s body and when asked your child has no explanation to tell you.

• To identify any physical signs of child’s sexual abuse, parents should know the normal appearance of the genitalia of their child so that they can identify if any changes occurred. If a child complains about problems with his or her genitals then take your child to a family doctor for examination.

• When your child fantasies sexual encounters. When you see your child playing any kind sexually oriented video games, sexual acts with toys or with other children.

• Eating disorder (overeating or under eating)

• The child will become destructive for example they will hurt themselves physically. They start hating their body, develop low self esteem.

• Parents should always communicate with their children and educate them about sexual abuse. You can form stories and make them explain in a casual way, so that your child will understand that what he/she should do if they face any kind of sexual abuse.

Healing process

• It’s not easy for sexually abused survivors to recover from the trauma, if your children share any sexually abused story which happened with him/her then be calm and listen to them carefully. Give them lots of care and love.

• Hug your child and reassure them that they will provide support and will never let that happen to them again. Never scold them or blame them for any exploitation which the child went through.

• It is very important to be calm, don’t traumatize the child any further. You will definitely go through anguish but you can’t express it in front of the child, he/she can perceive your anger against themselves.

Provide a safe environment to your child

• Privacy - Every child should be taught not to invade anyone’s privacy or not to allow anyone to infringe your privacy also. For example keep your bedrooms, bathrooms locked.

• Sex Education - Every child should be educated about the basic sex information. Explain them various body parts like vagina, breasts, penis, buttocks so that if anyone try to fiddle with their child’s gentile they would know that this is inappropriate. If any people touch your private parts, then very child should inform their parents so that they can protect their children.

• Learn how to say “NO” - If an individual show you adult movies or vulgar pictures to stimulate you sexually then just move out of the place.

Your child will take some time to recover from sexual abuse; it’s an on going process. The child will survive from the traumatic sexual abuse gradually. If your child is unable to recover from the sexual abuse then seek professional help. If you face any victim of child molestation then stand up to provide them child support and immediately contact the child abuse organizations!

Dating can be so much fun provided you are aware of dating rules that really have changed over a period of time. Are you conscious of yourself before you ask someone for a date? Dating someone for the first time gives you a sense of excitement and thrill. No matter how many times you have dated in the past, still you crave for more and more dating advices which will help you in winning the heart of that someone special., many people remain singles because they are not really aware of dating tricks! Come on guys have fun, date some of the most amazing singles. Here we are listing various dating facts which will definitely help you in wooing your date.

• Be yourself, never portrait something which you are not. Because sooner or later you wont be able to live with that fake side of yours. Therefore, it’s better to love yourself of what you really are.
• Be confident, if you don’t feel confident of yourself, you will end up looking like a clown. You need to respect yourself first before you expect the other person to respect you. If you think you need to change few things about yourself, go ahead. It’s always a good idea to develop and enhance your personality and learn new things in life. Be a generous person and love will find you.
• If it’s your first date, then always meet them personally, instead of going on a family dinner or going out with friends.
• Don’t pursue too quickly, take time to know each other for sometime. If you will move on too fast then chances are that the other person will run away from you.

• If you are meeting the date for the first time then choose a public place but not a crowded one and preferably meet during the day time for a cup of coffee.
• Be comfortable with your date; don’t wear something which you can’t carry off. Otherwise, you will end up looking conscious of your appearance, which the other person will easily notice! A big NO to mini skirts or sees through outfits for girls and no loud makeup. And guys no leather pants! Be simple, after all simplicity rules.

• Never ever argue with your date. It’s not necessary that you will get along with someone, in the very first meeting. If you don’t share your opinions on something then it’s advisable to keep that topic out of the conversation. Instead, share your common interests.

• Don’t get too excited, if you haven’t received any call from your date, just don’t jump to conclusions, that didn’t that person like your company or ma be no interested in meeting you again. Some people get desperate and they end up sending 10 voice mails or text messages.• Don’t cry over your Ex, empty your emotional luggage of your ex, never share any negative things about you ex, like reason why you broke off, blab blab! Just keep the topic of your ex out of the conversation. Move on with your life and just give importance to the new person in your life.
• Be chivalrous, follow the basic simple gestures of opening of offering her to sit first, helping her take off her coat etc
• Be flexible, if due to some reason your date wants to change the schedule then be understanding. If you planned to go to some particular place, but later the other person suggests something different. Never refuse.

• Guys should do the honor, on the first date, guys must offer to pay.
• Give compliments to your date, if you liked the dress, if you really adore certain qualities in them then now is the time to tell them. But don’t go overboard on it.
• Be a good listener; give them a chance to speak too. Otherwise; the whole evening can become quite a boring affair for the other person.
• Don’t drink too much. Needless to say, otherwise you won’t be in your senses and things can go haywire.
• Don’t start looking for faults in your date. No one is perfect. Don’t have far too many expectations, be realistic.
• Don’t start planning your future together too quickly, like if you want to move out to some other country or when you plan to have kids!
• If it’s too late after dinner, then always ask her if you can drop her home, it’s a nice gesture.
• Make the other person feel comfortable. Guys don’t embarrass women by checking them out from top to bottom.

• Keep the conversation interesting; never share your life’s sad old stories with your first date. Talk about your interests; share some fun stories of your last vacation. But don’t just harp about your experiences, you should also ask your dates interests.
• Always wear a smile, even if you are not enjoying the date. You should not give any negative vibes.
• Never be late, if you get stuck in the traffic or in a meeting, call them and be courteous to apologies for the inconvenience.
• Don’t ask too many personal questions; let the other person share their personal details whenever they want to.
• Have basic table manners. Guys don’t eat like a pig! And girls don’t be too fussy about your calorie chart. One day of treat will not kill you!
• Use basic courteous words like thank you, please, your welcome, it goes a long way
• Be considerate, for example if the other person is a non- smokers then prefer not to smoke or ask them if it’s fine with them.
• Never lie about anything! I think this needs no explanation, it says it all!
• A little bit of flirting won’t hurt anyone. Did you know that the way to women’s heart is through an interesting conversation?
• To share each others interests, you can try fun activities. If you have gone out on few dates and now you are comfortable in each others company, it’s a great idea to freak out.
• At last trust your instincts, we can’t list all the dos and don’ts of dating. In certain situations, you need to use your brains too! My idea of dos and don’ts of dating varies from to person to person. But above are the basic rules of dating, think about each of them and introduce in your next dating time. Hey guys if you want to turn your dating experience from a disappointing to an exciting experience then do apply all the above dating rules while dating!

Where exactly you do wrong?

Sometimes people do wonder that why did they break off, what went wrong in their relationships, some people feel lonely after breaking up and the feeling of rejection makes them even more depressed. They loose faith on themselves; they don’t feel capable of maintaining a long term relationship. Don’t sulk at home; make yourself available to single people.

Do you lack confidence in you?

Two main aspects of attractive personality include your appearance and the way you communicate with people. Before you start changing your outer self you need to transform your inner side because that’s what matters the most. The real change includes your behavior, the way you treat people. Therefore, you need to further boost up your confidence level.

• How do you interact with people?
• Are you the one who is craving for attention whenever you go out?
• Are you confident of carrying yourself in an appropriate manner instead of showing off a fake?

If you are in search of a long term relationship then it’s crucial to build up an emotional compatibility. You require a different outlook towards yourself; the utmost important thing is to gain self respect for yourself. Don’t ask other people that what’s wrong in you? Contemplation of your thoughts will help you in jotting down all your strengths and weaknesses. It will facilitate you in discovering a new side of you which will definitely help you in becoming a better person. Always be interested in people, instead of always craving for attention.

Now we can consider the physical appearance, if you are trying to be someone you are not by wearing clothes in which you don’t feel comfortable then naturally you are making a fool out of yourself. Always stick to something which you can easily carry off in style. You don’t have to wear only those clothes which are in fashion choose the one which brings the best of your personality. The first impression of any person is assessed by his/her clothes so don’t make a wrong choice. If you want a complete then don’t hesitate, it’s a great fun to change your style to suit your personality and taste.

Forgive and Forget

You have loved someone and lost him/ her and now you are still single. Are you holding yourself back and feel empty within. Don’t be depressed; make your life mantra of not crying over your past mistakes and broken relationships. If you keep reminding yourself all the bitterness and regrets of your past, then it will create a negative attitude around you. Needless to say, that it’s hard to get over a traumatic relationship and block that phase of your life. You can try to change your attitude by keeping aside your emotional baggage by forgetting and forgiving whosoever hurt you in the past. Stop sympathizing with yourself and take out the bitterness from your hurt and mind.

Always learn a valuable lesson from your mistakes by not repeating anything which sabotaged your past relationships. Once the resentment is clear from your mind you can easily open up to new people, you have crossed one big hurdle. If you will carry on with the grudges and pain of your past relationships to your new relationships then it can lead to one more breakup. Be grateful that life has blessed you a new lease of life. Tell yourself that there is someone who is made for you! In a nutshell replace all your negative thoughts with happy thoughts. All it requires is little bit of extra effort to break free, eventually you will lighten up your life with full of energy and positive vibes.

Self-respect

You should first practice loving kindness for yourself then to those people who you love, those who are in need and even towards those who are your enemies. It is difficult to love someone when you really don’t love yourself. Hence, if you are unhappy with yourself then you won’t be able to make the other person happy. Forgive yourself if you have committed any mistakes in the past, if you will continue to dwell over your regrets then it can definitely result in distress.

Jot down all the things which bother you, so that you can work on all the characteristics which is hassling you. Very few of us actually win over our past setbacks to the fullest. You need to relinquish yourself from your past hurts, though it won’t be that simple. Nonetheless, we can begin to heal ourselves and others. Gradually it will uplift you by brushing away your fears, helping you to progress in your personal and professional life!

These days extra marital affairs are common not only for men, but also for women. In today’s scenario, if at any point of time women feel dissatisfied in their marriage, they don’t just sit back instead they stand up against cruelty or betrayal. Some time ago, the news of a woman cheating on her husband might have aroused many rumors, but not anymore. Exact research results suggest, that women’s infidelity is not appalling in this age, at least 35-40 % of married women cheat because now it’s easy for women to cheat if they are dissatisfied .Why? The answer to this question is simple. Now women are not dependent on their men’s anymore. In today time women has become career conscious and they also have their family and friends support in any given setback. These days we have many ways by which women can seek their choice of men. Women are not just sitting back and crying over something which they can’t get in their existing relationship, they are exploring every opportunity to explore the outside world.

They don’t feel wanted

In most of the cases the reason for women to cheat is that they don’t feel wanted because their men take them for granted. When women realize that their dreams, hopes and desires are not being taken seriously, they end up looking outside of the relationship in the hope of being loved. The most common factor is the lack of healthy communication factor, when women don’t get emotional satisfaction in the relationship, then the element of intimacy goes out of the relationship. If at any point of time women get some attention from someone other than their husbands, they tend to get inclined towards that person. Hence, if women are unhappy, it gets hard for them to resist the temptation from someone else. This is the usual justification you find for infidelity.

Different interests

You no longer share the same interests, when you are not able to enjoy fun activities together and your avocations have diverged, then it becomes difficult to connect. Once you start having fun with someone who has common interests, you start getting inclined towards that person. Once the woman is bored of her usual routine and the passion in the existing relationship is fading away, she starts realizing that her man has changed and he is not the same person you fell in love with. She will not hesitate in exploring new guys in the block; new dating sites on internet have made the job easier for women to get hooked up with any guy they like. Gone are those days when women used to run after their men to give them attention.

Thrill to experiment

They experiment different things outside their marriage for fun. These kinds of women need change every now and then. And they are hard to please! Even if they have the most loving man; still they crave for more and never get satisfied in one relationship.

Revenge burnout

If a woman catches her man cheating on her, she doesn’t feel hesitant of doing the same; for the sake of taking revenge on her man. Some women do it to prove to their men that they are capable of doing the same; some do it to heal the hurt.

Sex issues

If you no longer share the sexual drive or you are not quenched then she could seek romance elsewhere. Physical aspect shapes a strong basis of a relationship and if the man is not willing to sustain the closeness for long then its mere frustration could evoke the woman in extra marital affairs. In the old days people presumed that only men crave for physical satisfaction unlike women who needs more of emotional intimacy than physical one. Not anymore, in today’s modern world women has the same thirst for sexual fulfillment, it is regarded as a salubrious sign in women to fulfill their sexual desires.

Ongoing Conflicts

Relationships are not bed of Roses; it needs to be nurtured over a period of time. Every relationship goes through some tough phase, it all depends on you that how you tackle every issues. Peaceful relationship is very important to sustain, otherwise it could be impossible to carry on. It requires great understanding and patience to realize each others thoughts. If you think that your partner never intend to take initiative in resolving the differences, then some women just give up and don’t give a second thought in establishing an extra marital relationship.

Abusive relationship

Gone are those days when women used to endure the suffering of abusive relationship. In these cases we can’t really blame the women can we?! Constant fights make the relationship weaker by each passing day. Some men often get abusive and physical during quarrels which could be very distressful. This leaves them with no choice but to divagate.

Do you ever wonder why married women cheat on their husbands? If some men presume that they have win over the heart of their women by getting married to them, and afterwards they don’t need to put any effort in sustaining the relationship, then they are completely wrong! Even after getting married every couple needs to nurture the relationship from time to time. The above reasons have dismissed all the myths that women don’t cheat. In today’s western world, women share equal rights in terms of career opportunities and financial soundness. They have the freedom to be independent and have the decision power to choose what’s right and wrong for them. New age women have become Go- Getters, they get what they deserve, irrespective of what their men has to offer them.