Embrace Your Love

Most of the guys get dishearten and frustrated when they don’t get any response from women on dating sites. And they start presuming that they are arrogant, but guys as a matter of fact you are completely wrong here! This is not true at all! Here you need to analyze your way of approaching women on dating sites. Firstly, you need to know that women are intelligent enough to screen every bit of your messages. Accordingly, they will give you importance or will easily overlook you; it all depends upon your way of interacting with them. Therefore, you need to be different; here are some lists of dos and don’ts that will help you in getting responses!

• Don’t just copy and paste same messages to 20 women. Don’t be a dullard in your very first approach; girls can easily notice that you are trying to hit on countless girls with the same boring message, so don’t be surprised if you don’t get any response from the other side. It’s like you are fishing in a sea and you will be gratified with any catch. Do send individual messages, go through their interests section and try to put your thought on it. This way you can make women interested in you, in most cases you will get a reply.
• Don’t waste your time on low grade Dating Sites, find out the most happening dating site, within a month you can review the dating site.
• I see guys writing all sorts of stupid messages on dating sites. Don’t write the same old boring lines, for example “hi how are you?” “You look pretty can we be friends?” Guys you need to choose some exciting pick up lines. Go through her profile and the communities or blogs she participates in; try writing your opinions about it.
• Don’t make silly grammar mistakes; try to read your message before you send it. Firstly it should make sense to you; then only it can make sense to the other person.
• Don’t be investigative; otherwise you will scare her away. Many guys just want to know everything too quickly, like the phone number, which company she works in or which college she attends. If she hasn’t added her pictures, then presume that she is a private person, who doesn’t want the whole world to invade her privacy. Do give her some time to get to know each other; once she becomes comfortable with you, she will surely share her personal details.
• Don’t choose a goofy nickname; it is the first thing which women will notice. Firstly it should not have any sexual meaning to it; secondly, it should not sound whacky. Mostly, women form their first opinion from the nickname, so remember it should be a classy one.

• Don’t lie about your personal information, this will lead you nowhere. If you don’t want to share your personal details because of any given reason, then just don’t include that detail in your conversation. Always remember if you want to date women then some day you will be meeting them in real. Hence, it’s not advisable to fake something which will be exposed later. Women hate imposters!
• Don’t just give importance to their looks, there is so much more to women than just their looks. So, guys don’t harp the same compliment “oh you look beautiful” you will be sidelined in no time!
• Right kind of interesting communication is essential to attract women; women usually get hundreds of mails from innumerable guys. Thus, your approach needs to be different than any other guy;
• Don’t pursue married women for dating; it’s a waste of time. If you just want to commence a friendly conversation, then you can always initiate talks.
• Don’t harass those women that are not showing interest in you. It’s better to move on; there are million of other profiles out there. If you still continue bugging them, then chances are that you will be banned from the site with no gains!
• Of course, there are many more ways to impress women on dating sites, we have listed only small list of unbelievably stupid things guys do on single dating sites!

Dating can be so much fun provided you are aware of dating rules that really have changed over a period of time. Are you conscious of yourself before you ask someone for a date? Dating someone for the first time gives you a sense of excitement and thrill. No matter how many times you have dated in the past, still you crave for more and more dating advices which will help you in winning the heart of that someone special., many people remain singles because they are not really aware of dating tricks! Come on guys have fun, date some of the most amazing singles. Here we are listing various dating facts which will definitely help you in wooing your date.

• Be yourself, never portrait something which you are not. Because sooner or later you wont be able to live with that fake side of yours. Therefore, it’s better to love yourself of what you really are.
• Be confident, if you don’t feel confident of yourself, you will end up looking like a clown. You need to respect yourself first before you expect the other person to respect you. If you think you need to change few things about yourself, go ahead. It’s always a good idea to develop and enhance your personality and learn new things in life. Be a generous person and love will find you.
• If it’s your first date, then always meet them personally, instead of going on a family dinner or going out with friends.
• Don’t pursue too quickly, take time to know each other for sometime. If you will move on too fast then chances are that the other person will run away from you.

• If you are meeting the date for the first time then choose a public place but not a crowded one and preferably meet during the day time for a cup of coffee.
• Be comfortable with your date; don’t wear something which you can’t carry off. Otherwise, you will end up looking conscious of your appearance, which the other person will easily notice! A big NO to mini skirts or sees through outfits for girls and no loud makeup. And guys no leather pants! Be simple, after all simplicity rules.

• Never ever argue with your date. It’s not necessary that you will get along with someone, in the very first meeting. If you don’t share your opinions on something then it’s advisable to keep that topic out of the conversation. Instead, share your common interests.

• Don’t get too excited, if you haven’t received any call from your date, just don’t jump to conclusions, that didn’t that person like your company or ma be no interested in meeting you again. Some people get desperate and they end up sending 10 voice mails or text messages.• Don’t cry over your Ex, empty your emotional luggage of your ex, never share any negative things about you ex, like reason why you broke off, blab blab! Just keep the topic of your ex out of the conversation. Move on with your life and just give importance to the new person in your life.
• Be chivalrous, follow the basic simple gestures of opening of offering her to sit first, helping her take off her coat etc
• Be flexible, if due to some reason your date wants to change the schedule then be understanding. If you planned to go to some particular place, but later the other person suggests something different. Never refuse.

• Guys should do the honor, on the first date, guys must offer to pay.
• Give compliments to your date, if you liked the dress, if you really adore certain qualities in them then now is the time to tell them. But don’t go overboard on it.
• Be a good listener; give them a chance to speak too. Otherwise; the whole evening can become quite a boring affair for the other person.
• Don’t drink too much. Needless to say, otherwise you won’t be in your senses and things can go haywire.
• Don’t start looking for faults in your date. No one is perfect. Don’t have far too many expectations, be realistic.
• Don’t start planning your future together too quickly, like if you want to move out to some other country or when you plan to have kids!
• If it’s too late after dinner, then always ask her if you can drop her home, it’s a nice gesture.
• Make the other person feel comfortable. Guys don’t embarrass women by checking them out from top to bottom.

• Keep the conversation interesting; never share your life’s sad old stories with your first date. Talk about your interests; share some fun stories of your last vacation. But don’t just harp about your experiences, you should also ask your dates interests.
• Always wear a smile, even if you are not enjoying the date. You should not give any negative vibes.
• Never be late, if you get stuck in the traffic or in a meeting, call them and be courteous to apologies for the inconvenience.
• Don’t ask too many personal questions; let the other person share their personal details whenever they want to.
• Have basic table manners. Guys don’t eat like a pig! And girls don’t be too fussy about your calorie chart. One day of treat will not kill you!
• Use basic courteous words like thank you, please, your welcome, it goes a long way
• Be considerate, for example if the other person is a non- smokers then prefer not to smoke or ask them if it’s fine with them.
• Never lie about anything! I think this needs no explanation, it says it all!
• A little bit of flirting won’t hurt anyone. Did you know that the way to women’s heart is through an interesting conversation?
• To share each others interests, you can try fun activities. If you have gone out on few dates and now you are comfortable in each others company, it’s a great idea to freak out.
• At last trust your instincts, we can’t list all the dos and don’ts of dating. In certain situations, you need to use your brains too! My idea of dos and don’ts of dating varies from to person to person. But above are the basic rules of dating, think about each of them and introduce in your next dating time. Hey guys if you want to turn your dating experience from a disappointing to an exciting experience then do apply all the above dating rules while dating!