The first genre deals with silent killers. They sulk inside rather than blasting in front of their beloved. You need to leave them alone for some time after you had a fight or misunderstanding. No matter, how much you try talking with them, they will never understand and would get further detached from you. Nothing helps them better to cool off than their own loneliness.

After your man gets out of that locked room, greet him with a smile. Donot talk about the fight and swiftly change the topic to something which concerns him. Give him a chance to speak. Later in the night, when he lies next to you, pretending to be asleep, just say those three magical words. Donot defend your stand! Just listen to him. After he finishes, just let him know how much you missed him. Let him feel wanted and important.

The rumbling roadies

These men shout, grumble, and throw tantrums, clearly showing how angry they are. If your man falls into this category, you need to understand that inside the roaring tiger’s heart, there is untamed love for you. Understand the difference between “being angry” and “being hurt.” These men often tend to scold and shout when they are hurt. Hear every single thing which they say. Donot ever answer back, no matter how wrong it was. Keep your ego aside.  Let them vent out.

You are lucky that he, at least, is communicating with you, through any means. Most of us, donot get to know the reasons behind the anger till it turns out to be too late.

You might feel a lot humiliated at first, but keep going on. If you know you love him, nothing will give you peace apart from hearing him. At the same time, somewhere in his heart he will know that out of all the women present in the world, there is just one who listens to him.

The anonymously pained ones

This genre is for all those men who have been there with their beloved, hiding their anger, their hurt feelings just to secure a long relationship. They get easily ignored, their wishes easily crumpled because they donot know how to speak but just how to sacrifice. In case, you know when they are angry or hurt, just let them cry. They are not weak, but just like other men; they need your arms to cry like a baby, as they can’t pretend inflated egos and harsh words.

Even if he says, “I donot care”, donot get deluded by it. Just be there with him. When he in angry, he needs you. It just shows how important you are in his life. Tender his wounds, in the same manner as you would to your own child. After all, every man is a small child at heart.