Well now, things are all set up and you are sitting watching for her arrival. You definitely are tense.  Bear in mind this can actually be detrimental to you.  If you and your special someone do decide to make love tonight and you are too tense, you will have trouble getting an erection.  If you don’t the tension may actually cause you to prematurely ejaculate.  Neither of which are a good thing to happen in this circumstance.  It happens to every guy at one time or another.  When it does, don’t let the moment die.  Continue kissing and fondling your partner.  This is good for two things.  First it keeps her pleasure going and keeps her aroused.

Secondly, chances are that by doing this you will become aroused again and it is almost a one hundred percent guarantee that you will not have another case of prematurely letting loose.   I’m not saying it will happen on your first time with her, but it does happen to every guy.  But the more at ease you are, the less likely it will be to happen.  So file that for future reference.

There’s a knock at your door.  Is it her?  You go over only to find it’s the Chinese you ordered.  Be sure to tip the delivery person.  Set the food up on the table and you’re all ready to go now.  You got the food out, the music on, the candles lit, the wine coolers chilled.  You’ll note I said ‘wine coolers’ and not ‘wine’.  Why? Simple, wine coolers allow you to relax as you do with wine and do not impair your functioning the way alcohol does.  There are other reasons too, but that will be covered in a future installment.

There’s a knock on the door.  It is her.  The night has begun………