Well now, things seem to be going pretty well for you and your special someone.
You’ve been together for several months, maybe even a year now, you feel as if it is time to move on to that next step.  Well as with any other step taken in a love relationship, this definitely is a big one.  If you have been with a woman before, it may be a step you’re familiar with, but nervous none-the-less.  If you are a virgin then no doubt you are terrified.  Every guy is, and if a guy tells you he wasn’t he’s a liar.  There’s a lot to consider here taking this step, because this step has emotional ramifications attached to it.  That is why many women wait until they have the engagement ring on the finger before allowing intercourse to occur. The reason for this being, the ring is a symbol of commitment and the love making only further bonds that commitment.

As you prepare for that night, tell your special someone that you’d like a romantic evening at home.  Make sure that you have candles and mood music to set the tone for romance.  You’ll probably be too nervous to cook, so ordering take out is probably a good idea. Chinese is an excellent food for this occasion. Have this all set up and the food out on the table prior to her arrival. You’ve got the mood set; will she go for it?  You sit and watch for her to arrive…