Stupid Things Guys Do On Dating Sites

Most of the guys get dishearten and frustrated when they don’t get any response from women on dating sites. And they start presuming that they are arrogant, but guys as a matter of fact you are completely wrong here! This is not true at all! Here you need to analyze your way of approaching women on dating sites. Firstly, you need to know that women are intelligent enough to screen every bit of your messages. Accordingly, they will give you importance or will easily overlook you; it all depends upon your way of interacting with them. Therefore, you need to be different; here are some lists of dos and don’ts that will help you in getting responses!
- Don’t just copy and paste same messages to 20 women. Don’t be a dullard in your very first approach; girls can easily notice that you are trying to hit on countless girls with the same boring message, so don’t be surprised if you don’t get any response from the other side. It’s like you are fishing in a sea and you will be gratified with any catch. Do send individual messages, go through their interests section and try to put your thought on it. This way you can make women interested in you, in most cases you will get a reply.
- Don’t waste your time on low grade Dating Sites, find out the most happening dating site, within a month you can review the dating site.
- I see guys writing all sorts of stupid messages on dating sites. Don’t write the same old boring lines, for example “hi how are you?” “You look pretty can we be friends?” Guys you need to choose some exciting pick up lines. Go through her profile and the communities or blogs she participates in; try writing your opinions about it.
- Don’t make silly grammar mistakes; try to read your message before you send it. Firstly it should make sense to you; then only it can make sense to the other person.
- Don’t be investigative; otherwise you will scare her away. Many guys just want to know everything too quickly, like the phone number, which company she works in or which college she attends. If she hasn’t added her pictures, then presume that she is a private person, who doesn’t want the whole world to invade her privacy. Do give her some time to get to know each other; once she becomes comfortable with you, she will surely share her personal details.
- Don’t choose a goofy nickname; it is the first thing which women will notice. Firstly it should not have any sexual meaning to it; secondly, it should not sound whacky. Mostly, women form their first opinion from the nickname, so remember it should be a classy one.
- Don’t lie about your personal information, this will lead you nowhere. If you don’t want to share your personal details because of any given reason, then just don’t include that detail in your conversation. Always remember if you want to date women then some day you will be meeting them in real. Hence, it’s not advisable to fake something which will be exposed later. Women hate imposters!
- Don’t just give importance to their looks, there is so much more to women than just their looks. So, guys don’t harp the same compliment “oh you look beautiful” you will be sidelined in no time!
- Right kind of interesting communication is essential to attract women; women usually get hundreds of mails from innumerable guys. Thus, your approach needs to be different than any other guy;
- Don’t pursue married women for dating; it’s a waste of time. If you just want to commence a friendly conversation, then you can always initiate talks.
- Don’t harass those women that are not showing interest in you. It’s better to move on; there are million of other profiles out there. If you still continue bugging them, then chances are that you will be banned from the site with no gains!
- Of course, there are many more ways to impress women on dating sites, we have listed only small list of unbelievably stupid things guys do on single dating sites!

April 18th, 2008 at 6:20 pm
Yeah some good advice here
I like the one about not sending the same messages to 20 women. Funny thing is that often the 20 women can know each other and you will look like a total moron. Same for the girls, the first contact message should be specific to who you are contacting.
April 19th, 2008 at 9:48 am
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screw me tight If I say anything against you,,
I liked this blog personally, but tell me do you have anything related to : ” how a girl can approach to some girl for friendship? ” B-) normally, people take it in other sense and girls too, but what about the genuine friendship
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Please do write on sumthing like this also……
or else you can also solve one of my friend’s problem by answering this question
” SERIOUS” ” why do some people unintentionally become the victims of misunderstanding? “
April 21st, 2008 at 1:40 pm
hey thats a gr8 blog n gud advices…but what about that…whn gals say one line”i dont like frndship with starngers”…i think everyone on net are strangers to each others…so plzz…
request to writer..
write smthing about gals..y they say that we dont like stangers…if they dont like stangers frdship thn tell thm to chat with there family members face to face…or talk with thr relatives n frds on phone :-P…n one more idea …tell thm to write letters n post thm to thr realtives who dont have phone facilty or network in thr area..aur the realtives which saty out of country…but one thing most STOP coming online if they dont want any frdship with unknown peoples
with respect to writer
Sandeep
May 29th, 2008 at 3:42 pm
oh no sandeep!! that’s real stupid!! 1. coz net is the cheapest way of being in touch.. 2. no gals on dating sites say they dont wanna make friends with strangers!! if they do, stay away.. they r completely nuts
n yaa.. guys hunt for gals like despos.. even on social networking sites!!!! how abt that?? seriously guys… try something new and different… this rule always works for girls.. the more u show interest in them, the less are they interested in u!!